Monday, December 1, 2014

Day of the Dead Puebla, Mexico 2014




Celebrating those who have passed and those who are living during the Day of the Dead in México is a heart warming experience. Generally, in the state of Puebla, Mexicanos celebrate Day of the Dead or día de muertos in the campo or rural areas, not big cities. Each household prepares ofrendas or offerings for their loved ones in an altar. Altars generally have three levels. The first level has food offerings (the favorite food of those that passed, and pan de muerto or bread of the dead); the second is the space between earth and heaven which has many flowers (marigolds, which are the symbol of death) and crosses; and the last level is the heavens. Papel picado, or traditional paper with stories of the dead line the walls or ceilings. 





This year for día de muertos I traveled to Huaquechula, Puebla to visit some altars at night, which was both beautiful and sad. The families in this community opened their doors to visitors, providing them with food and drink. A small tray sits at the bottom of the altar, indirectly asking visitors to contribute a small donation (the ofrendas are SUPER expensive). Many of the homes offered us a warm beverage, either coffee or hot chocolate, and some pan de muerto. We followed a map to many homes, almost like a scavenger hunt to find the altars. I appreciated its beauty in silence and was struck with gratitude that yes, indeed, we still have some time to live our lives to do such wonderful and meaningful things. Simple things such as, practicing kindness.


"Kindness is one of the most undervalued commodities — which is too bad because it doesn't take much of it to turn the day around. I wonder if we overlook kindness because it's so simple. What's really involved? Someone needs something, we help. Someone feels low, we console. Someone trips, we catch them. There's a need, we respond. Then the other person is grateful and relieved — and we're happy knowing we could help. Kindness is a low-effort, high-return energy." --Joan Duncan Oliver









One of the most memorable ofrendas had this tragic, yet beautiful poem. Below is my attempt of a translation. Read it for it will make your heart sing with gratitude.   




"This is certainly true.
How many flowers arrive at a person's funeral and how many flowers were enjoyed by this dead person when they were alive?

I prefer to have a rose and a word of encouragement of a loved one while I am still here, than a truck full of flowers when I go. 


*The difficulties make you stronger

*The errors make you human
*The failures make you humble 
*The success makes you shine

You that is reading this, if today you encounter somebody your are mad with, I invite you to reflect, to be better than yourself without waiting for anyone to change. Remember that what was given with the heart can never be replaced. Tell all those that you love, that you love and care about them, TODAY. Life, we can not purchase it. 


It is not worth expressing your feelings, without actions that demonstrate your words. Hug the person that you love or care about. Gift them a smile or simply be friendly with her.


But enough!


Many times we prefer to be friendly with people we don't know, instead of the people that are always helping us.


Only because they're always there, but we believe that they will always be here, but it isn't like that and the sad thing is that when they leave forever we never had the opportunity to say to them how important they were in our lives.


Don't wait until the person is gone from your life, tell them how much you care for them, love them, need them, and how important they are to you.


Today you must live!"






Friday, July 11, 2014

"Poco a Poco, Paso a Paso: Steps to become a Peace Corps Volunteer


There is a Mexican "dicho" (saying) that reminds me of my journey prior to arriving in México to become a Peace Corps Volunteer:

 "Poco a Poco, Paso a Paso," 
which means "Bit by Bit, Step by Step"

In this I blog will discuss this process of preparing for the Peace Corps.



  The Process of Deciding if Peace Corps was for Me

I always wanted to volunteer or work with communities in-need, I just wasn’t sure what "nivel" (level) I wanted to participate in. I worked or volunteered at all "niveles" except the international "nivel"  (https://www.linkedin.com/pub/jessica-helgesen/52/123/722). I also knew I wanted to help others through the transfer of skills (ie, give a person a fish versus teach a person to fish). To help decide if I wanted to "aplicar" (apply), I attended an informational session at the University of Wisconsin-Madison and asked questions to many of my friends and co-workers who participated in the Peace Corps program. 

All had the same "consejo" (advice):
 “It is what you make it.” 

About to turn 25, I felt "motivada" (motivated) for a positive change in my life. For example, I wanted a change in my current job and work in an environmental field again in order to use my degree and passion for creating sustainable communities, etc. I also had the travel bug. I knew that I wanted to continue to explore beyond the U.S. "frontera" (boundary) and my own personal "límites" (boundaries), to be more well-rounded and to better  understand the world beyond myself. To be certain that Peace Corps was for me, I began exploring texts that discussed Peace Corps and traveling in general. 

I highly suggest reading these "libros" (books) or "libros" similar to these before one applies or during the process:



























After self exploration of Peace Corps and talking with friends, family and mentors (thanks all for your time, support and encouragement) I decided to take the dive and apply to serve in the Peace Corps.

Here is a blurb from my Peace Corps essay in my application to get an idea of my reasoning to serve, etc:

My calling for the Peace Corps first developed in my hometown of Bellevue, Wisconsin.  I witnessed unsustainable development practices, which spliced natural and agricultural lands in my community, resulting in fragmentation of the land. This drove me to my career goal of serving in the ecological sustainability planning field.  I had the Peace Corps in the back of my mind throughout college.  I pushed myself to take advantage of options to go to other cities and countries to research, volunteer, intern, and attend international conferences.  Studying abroad and travelling abroad in general has also taught me how different, yet similar, cultures are all over the world.  In addition, it has shown me how difficult it can be to live far away from family and friends back home, but that the gains from the new experiences far outweigh the difficulties of being abroad.  In the future I foresee myself working for the federal government with an agency such as the EPA, or for a non-profit organization at the local or regional level. “

Interviewing and Site Location

Peace Corps conducted "la entrevista" ( the interview) in Chicago, IL. That day I was so "nerviosa" (nervous) and was so lucky that one of my friends had a "prueba"(test) in a building nearby and was able to take me there. Thankfully, my sister and parents practiced doing mock interviews prior, so I felt prepared. The "entrevista" lasted about an hour long and at the end they told me that I was in. Unofficially in, but in…. and it wouldn’t be until I sent a bunch information in before I could be considered for a position with Peace Corps. So I waited, and waited and then sent information in…but continued on with my "trabajo" (job) as a Bilingual Family Outreach worker at the Head Start Program.

Later, after "el gobierno" (the government) shutdown passed, I received "un correo electronico" (an e-mail) stating that I would be considered for the México program. I edited my resume and goals to fit Peace Corps México’s questions and focus and waited.  In the meantime I started organizing my life as if I would travel to México as my place of service. 



Once I received the notice that I was accepted in México, I was excited, shocked, and confused. I didn’t realize that Peace Corps was in México and I was also selected for a vague project about GIS (Geographical Informational Systems). Nonetheless, I was excited because I received all my preferences….

  • "Localización" (Location): Latin America
  • "Idioma" (Language): Spanish
  • "Programa" (Program): related to the environment, preferably planning
  • "Hora de salida" (Departure time): soon

                              "Que Suerte!!!! " (How lucky!) 

(Update 7-16-14... Peace Corps now allows volunteers to select site and positions. See article on the change here): 
Washington Post Article on Application Changes

Accepting the Position

I knew it was right for me because I realized through all my research, informal interviews and overall passion aligned with the Peace Crops mission. Thus, I began my transition to accepting my offer to Peace Corps.




I accepted the position and began making a list of things I needed to do for Peace Corps and myself. I focused on goals that were important to me and/or required by Peace Corps.


Peace Corps
  • Complete Financial Form, call bank about accounts and cards abroad and contact school loan companies about deferments and download all the forms for school loans (time consuming process)
  • Complete all the health paperwork and exam (I did this as soon as possible because it is a lot of work)
  • Complete Visas and Passport information (this was also urgent
  • Do a Spanish interview on the phone with Peace Corps México’s’ language teacher (practiced speaking Spanish with my sister Caitlin, friends and co-workers and families at the Head Start)
  • Figure out my flight with Peace Corps
  • Read paperwork Peace Corps provided and do more investigation on Mexico
  • Send thank you letters or call  those who helped a long the way
  • Figure out voting abroad and updating my license
  • Etc.

Myself
  • Collect e-mails for an e-mail blast and addresses to send mail
  • Make plans to visit people I hadn’t seen in awhile and those I wanted to see as much as possible!!
  • Do yoga and journal multiple days per week
  • Enjoy the outdoors
  • Create a photobook online to bring with (friends, family, pets, etc) 
  • Find someone who could take care of my cat Penguin for 2 years
  • Make sure families at the Head Start program had a transition plan to a new Family Outreach Worker after I left the agency
  • Take a month off from my job to relax and move and organize my life
  • Pack and donate belongings (donated my dishes, bed and desk to a family who found a home after being homeless for a really long time… and then donated a large portion of my clothing to the East Madison Community Center)
  • List of things I want to bring (I will elaborate this on a later post when I figure out was useful and unnecessary) 
  • List of things I needed to purchase that I wanted to bring (that was within the budget)
  • Make a budget, and then redo the budget for how much I wanted to save for traveling while in Peace Corps; Goal $3,000… ended up with over $3,000 and how much I could spend on supplies and what I wanted to spend in the US (later blog on this)
  • Read up on Mexico
  •  Etc.


Surprises from Family and Friends






  •  Those contacting me before I left or sending me supportive messages
  • A packet of inspirational bracelets
  • Postcards and stamps to send letters 
  • A spiral ring of inspirational quotes
  • A bag of written letters from my friends and family (my sister Caitlin organized this and helps sooo much when I need just a little support from home… my other sister Michelle wrote me a letter for EVERY month!) Wow!

  • A calendar for every month I will be in Mexico with pictures of me and things I wrote growing up in Wisconsin (thanks parentals) 

  • French Press

  • Transportation kit for the plane and bus (cute lil gadgets for the trip)

  • Children at the Head Start drew handprints on two tote bags and made little art pieces
  • Steri pen (UV water purifier) and solar panel to charge it!

  • A few books and journals 
  • Nexus tablet (Peace Corps)
  • Surprise visits from friends
  • Just so much support (how lucky)
  • Etc!

Leaving Wisconsin


Sals and I :)
Stephanie and I celebrating Peace Corps and her b-day :)
ev, me, becks and petah :D


















I had a couple goodbye parties and was able to see the majority of those great people in my life. I didn't get to see everyone, but will see them when I come back to the states or when they visit México ;) 



Al, me and Ang enjoying smoothies one more time!
Adventure in chi-town, watching Phantom!!
Celebrating Becky-boos bday :)


My last couple of days involved packing and hanging out with family.


Visiting my Grandma, Carol, with my fam
Showing her pictures from my Everglades roadtrip and how to use Skype


Neelu and I watching Frozen and having a henna party :)


Moving and packing crew.... thanks ladies!
Kim helping me move!
In Madison, with two of my great friends, Becks and Steph, we splurged on manicures and cheese curds (of course).



I had traveled abroad before and I was sad, but this was different. This adventure was going to last for over two years. So obviously I was saturated in emotions: excitement, fear, doubt, bittersweet and shock (that it was actually happening). The night before I left I made some last minute thank you cards and cd mixes (of course the most random upbeat mix possible), and did a couple changes with my bag to make sure I was close to the weight limit.

Penguin, not helping me pack. haha


I woke up early with my parents and purchased some last minute things and then it was off to the airport. I had a bittersweet goodbye with the 'rents and then off to the terminal. As I walked through the terminal there was a pleasant surprise of one of my Head Start parents. This parent thanked me for my time at the program and said that they would miss me and appreciated all that I did and knows that I would do great in the Peace Corps program. This made me smile, and later cry, but helped fill the circle of knowing that indeed this was the right decision.



With my parents before boarding


On my way!


Vamos! Let's go!


"Today a new sun rises for me;

everything lives,

 everything is animated,

everything seems to speak of my passion,

everything invites me to cherish it."

-Anne de Lenclos


 *Thanks, Michelle for the June card quote! *




Monday, May 5, 2014

First Impressions and my Peace Corps role in México



Peace Corps-16 at Hacienda Castillo in Querétaro, México for the Peace Corps retreat, March 2014

Arriving to Mexico about two months ago, I have engaged in many aspects of the Mexican culture and opened my eyes to the real México, one with much more than our own perceptions and others lead us to believe. Throughout my service in the Peace Corps I will blog about my experience in México. I invite you to follow and enjoy my blog about the México I see, the México off the beaten path.

Peace Corps is an international service organization based out of the United States sponsored by the federal government, promoting peace and friendship through sustainable, community oriented and grassroots focused development, etc. For more information about Peace Corps see the following link: http://www.peacecorps.gov/about/

Host Family

My experience in Querétaro, Querétaro to this point has been quite “chido” (awesome). I have been living with a host family in a two-story house 15 minutes from “el centro” (downtown) and a 30 minute walk from the Peace Corps office.  Generally my host mom stays here during the week while my host dad travels to “Ciudad de México” (México City) to work during the week. My host family’s children are older and already have children. Their “hijos” (children) come over to eat and hangout every weekend, usually involving a big ole barbeque. Family here is very important and it seems, at least in this family, that life in México is often focused on when one will see the family next and when they can celebrate something in life and have a “pachanga” (party). I would think about a fiesta in terms of the family celebrating each other, someone, or holiday with strategic meal planning, which does not need decorations such as a piñata [unless for a “cumpleaños” (birthday) for a younger “nino” (child)]. I really enjoy my “familia” (family) and will be sad to leave them when I head out to my site that is outside of Querétaro.


Two of my host nieces! :)


With some of my host family en el centro Querétaro


My host mom and I being silly with a bull in Tequis


The first day I moved to my home in Querétaro, my host family greeted me with a fiesta, celebrating my arrival and one of my host sister’s birthdays. They sang the traditional Mexican birthday song “Mañanitas,” had taquitos (ones with potatoes and the others with meat), cake, flan, Mexican beer and tequila.  The Mañanitas song was much longer than our traditional song in the U.S. The next Birthday party I attend I’ll have to record my host family singing and share it in a blog, because it is quite fun :). I didn’t understand everything that was said at the party even though I’ve a lot of experience studying Spanish. My Spanish is decent (I studied abroad in Chile for 6 months, traveled in Peru, Guatemala, Belize, and Argentina, and worked at a Head Start program as a family outreach worker making goals with Spanish and English speaking families). Even so, understanding or speaking Spanish can be challenging at times, but I find that challenge to be a fun adventure! When I first arrived to México, before I went to my host family’s home, we went to a training at the Haciendo Castillo, which was mostly in English. Once I went to my host family’s home, I had to adapt to the sudden language change, because it was entirely in Spanish. Nonetheless, the fiesta helped dip me into Mexican culture and begin my Spanish journey.


 Los arcos (aqueduct) in Querétaro and graffiti art...take note of the details and creativity on the dragon



View of the city Querétaro, México at night, April 2014


Food and Drinks

As for food, the intense spices were at first very difficult for me: “muy picante” (very spicy). I am slowly working my way up to handling the spicy food ;). Street food here has been super tasty, but you eat it with the risk of becoming sick. I found a few places that I now enjoy stopping by for a taco called a ‘gringa.’ One day during lunchtime, I found an empanada place near the Peace Corps (PC) office where I purchased one for 15 pesos (about $1 US) …I was quite excited as empanadas were super big in Chile when I studied there! As for sweets, some sweets here are more common than others. For example, I noticed that flan and jello are very big here in Mexico and pies not as common. Working on enjoying the flan and jello, but sometimes it was hard for me-strange texture. I also found a fabulous cupcake shop on my way home from the office right before Querétaro’s famous “Arcos” (aqueduct in the middle of the city). The owner has made me cupcakes with a “panda” (panda), “penguino" (penguin) and “jirafa” (giraffe) [you can have any animal you want] with frosting on top and filled up with some cream and topped off with sprinkles. So fantastic… and less than $1.00 US for a little one that is just the right size…aka “delicioso” (delicious)! Good thing I walk 1 hour everyday “ida y vuelta” (there and back) so I burn off some of those cupcakes. =p


 Panda cupcake!



Celebrating Jessi's Birthday with a giraffe cupcake... check out our giraffe ossicones  hah


I also enjoyed some Mexican culture when I visited a local pulqueria in Querétaro, México. A pulqueria is a place that sells tasty pulque (traditional alcoholic drink made from fermented sap of a Maguey plant). During this adventure I also heard a local singing his heart out to ranchero songs.  If you want to learn about pulque see my political professor’s (Edgardo López Mañón) blog:  http://lascronicasdelviejo.blogspot.mx/search/label/Pulque .




 
Some of the Peace Corps crew at the Pulquería

Drinking pulque the traditional style...out of a bowl



Lunar Eclipse

One of the most amazing experiences I’ve had so far was seeing the “Eclipse Lunar” (lunar eclipse) at my host sister’s place. I saw the transition of the moon from full white, to partially black to a redish color (the blood moon) during the full eclipse. It was breathtaking. I was lucky enough to see two “estrellas fugazes”(shooting stars) as well.

Photo Credit: Michael Helgesen 






Peace Corps Project

Secretaría de Medio Ambiente y Recursos Naturales (SEMERNAT) selected me to volunteer in Subdelegación de Planeación y Fomento Sectorial  (state level planning department) as a Natural Resource Management Volunteer in Puebla, Puebla. SEMERNAT is Mexico’s equivalent of the Environmental Protection Agency. Two weeks ago I attended a contrapart workshop where we worked with our host agency to see what the community wants in Puebla, discussed duties and roles and formed a plan for our transition into my position as a volunteer in their agency. Surprisingly, my agency, SEMERANT has a very focused plan for me. Prior to my arrival, I assumed that my project would be vague and I would create most of it, as many Peace Corps volunteer positions are structured yet broad. Clearly, my host agency strategically thought out my presence and usefulness and hopefully I can provide some aid in these realms.The projects SEMERANT would like me to work with are various planning projects such as: 1) Corredor ecológico de la Sierra Madre Oriental (CESMO) [environmental corridors focusing on cloud forests],  2) natural resource management plans (such as Valsequillo a RAMSAR site just outside of Puebla), 3) evaluating land use plans, 4) working on an initiative focused on reducing hunger and malnutrition with Cruzada Nacional Contra de la Hambre and 5) using/training a computer-mapping program Geographical Informational Systems (GIS). These projects may evolve or change through my time at SEMERNAT in Puebla, Puebla. The projects I actually do will depend on the needs and wants of my community and agency needs when I arrive at site. I am excited to work in the handful communities SEMERNAT selected, along with identifying my community in the city of Puebla along with other communities within the state of Puebla. 

Below is some brief information about some of the projects I might work on. Feel free to look through the links and let me know if you have any questions.


Video de CESMO:




Valsequillo

Previous Peace Corps Volunteer blog on the project:


Valsequillo won an award with the help form a former Peace Corps Volunteer:

http://www.planning.org/awards/2013/pdf/ValsequilloInitiative.pdf



























                                                 Valsequillo (RAMSAR site),  April 2014





World Wise School Project

Another resource you can explore to see what I am doing here in Mexico is checking out the website for my World Wise School project.  I will be working with my sister Caitlin Smith in Deforest, Wisconsin with her elementary school’s “clase de español” (Spanish class). We will be posting videos back and forth between the “estados unidos” (United States) and México. :) My sister’s website also has wonderful links and activities if you want to learn or improve your Spanish.

More information on World Wise Schools: 
http://www.peacecorps.gov/wws/

My World Wise School website with Caitlin Smith:


Next Blogs


Urban exploring in Querétaro <3

Over my two year and 3 month experience as a Peace Corps Volunteer/ Volunteer in training I plan to investigate the Mexican culture and reflect on my own experiences as an American, Peace Corps Volunteer, and a young woman traveler. I just completed 1½ months of training as an “aspirante” (volunteer in training) in Querétaro, Querétaro, Mexico and have less than 1 month left until I am sworn in as a “voluntario” (volunteer).

Keep tuned to my blog, which I will update monthly (or more if time allows) with short stories, pictures or/and an evaluation/comparison between the United States and México. Feedback and suggestions on a topic to blog about is appreciated. :)


Adios amigos :)